We have to learn to listen

Communication is one of the hardest areas that a parent can encounter when dealing with their children. Children first learn how to communicate not with their words but with their actions. When they are first born it’s with their crying as they get older it’s with their actions, then eventually with their mouths and soon their lack of words. The reason I bring this up is that I got a scripture Proverbs 22.6, says START a child in the way they should go and even when they are old they will not turn from it.


I hear parents speak about how they cannot communicate with their children; the fact is most parents don’t start communicating with their children until they start getting into trouble, and a parent form of communication is yelling. The last time I checked communicating take one to listen and one to speak and vice versa. I hear so many parents talking to their children but many don’t take the time to listen.

If you ever pay attention to mothers and their children you always see a mother talking to their children, but don’t realize they are brushing them off at the same time. Then the wonder as they get older why their children brush them off.

Stay Empowered Moms

We cannot let our emotions control what we want for our children.

Hello beautiful mothers, for years I was hurt because I was unable to keep my family together. Not only was I upset with myself but then I started to over compensate with my child. I almost felt like I was the one to blame so I gave everything to him to make up for that hurt that I was feeling. Children need structure and discipline; don’t let emotions make you feel guilty for the decision you had to make.  Walking away sometimes is the best thing not only for you but also for your children.  A negative environment is not only unhealthy for your children, but also for yourself.  A stressful relationship can not only hurt our children in the long run, but could have them emotionally scared in the future. My motto has always been what ever is in the best interest of the children. Staying in an abusive relationship is far worse than leaving. Sometimes we have to cut our losses in order for us to gain our future.~ You are empowered!

Taking Care Of Our Most Sacred Temples

Hello Beautiful Mothers, this month I want to focus on the body and what we need to do in order to take care of it. While being single we are the head of our household while God is over us. If we cut off the head, then how does the body function. Not having God in our lives, who in an essence, the father,  in our home and not taking care of bodies, which belongs to God is nothing more than disobedience and a sin. We have to make a full conscious decision to take care of ourselves or else we are just like Solomon says we are just a wind, here one minute and then gone. We were created with just one breath, it only takes loosing our breath to no longer exist.  We were put on this earth to be good stewards over little, and if we cannot take care of the little how can he trust us with much. I challenge each mom to start focusing on taking care of ourselves s over little, and if we cannot take care of the little how can he trust us with much. Stay empowered single mom and lets start taking care of our selves.  

Why Should Single Mom's Reach for Empowerment?

Women in general carry the center of the universe; those that understand this know that the power of a woman lies at her center.  A woman gives life, something that no man can ever do; but something that scientist works on creating on an everyday basis. Women are host to producing life and when women understand the real power they posses they will never think less of themselves and the value they are worth.  Many women have gone through rough situation in their lives that they let the past determine their true value.  Women are worth so much more and when as individual they realize that not only will true value flow from us, but it will trickle down to our children.  Children need to be raised in an environment that is stable, and confidence is everywhere.  Toxic relationships, behavior and thoughts, along with words, only create a toxic environment for our children.  So why should single women reach for empowerment? If mothers don't take control of their lives, then their lives will take control of them.  Each individual needs to be in control of their lives and understanding  ways to do this WILL take you to that next level, and empowerment will be within reach.

Welcome It's Time For A Change

There comes a point in your life that you have to stop and realize that it is time for a change.  You look back at yourself and realize this is not what you planned for your life.  Any time you want a change in your life, you have to first acknowledge that you are ready.  Being EMPOWERED, means making a conscious decision that you don't want to be where you are.  It's realizing that if you don't make a conscious decision, not only for your but also for your children. So where do I start and how do I move up?  Let's take the first step together, which is first making a conscious decision that you are ready for that change.  If your not willing to move out of your comfort zone and and be willing to take on some growing pains, then this is not for you.  If your ready for this empowerment then get ready to get on board to move into enlightenment and letting go of your old way of thinking and creating a new generation of children who ready to look at the world in a new light.  Walking around in the darkness only keeps you blind, if your ready to then come on let's take this journey together.